Wife's Duty...

It is a myth that when a son gets married and a new daughter in law arrives in the family, everything changes.
Some daughters in law are well trained and well mannered.
They don't come to change the family, they are there to... read the following:

The new wife was being welcomed at the husband's home in a traditional manner.
As expected she gave a speech:

"My dear family, I thank you for welcoming me in my new home and family",she said
"Firstly, my being here does not mean that I would want to change your way of life, your routine."
"No, I will never do that, never in a million years".

"What do you mean my child?" Asked the father in law.

"What I mean, dad, is (looking at her father in law):
Those who used to wash dishes must carry on washing them.
Those who used to do the laundry must carry on doing it.
Those who cooked shouldn't stop on my account,and
Those who used to clean should continue cleaning".

"Then what are you here for?" Asked the mother in law.

"I'm here just to entertain your son"

Actual label instructions on consumer goods

1. On a Sears hairdryer:
Do not use while sleeping.
(and that's the only time I have to work on my hair.)

2. On a bag of Fritos:
You could be a winner! No purchase necessary. Details inside.
(the shoplifter special?)

3. On a bar of Dial soap:
"Directions: Use like regular soap."
(and that would be how???....)

4. On some Swanson frozen dinners:
"Serving suggestion: Defrost."
(but, it's "just" a suggestion.)

5. On Tesco's Tiramisu dessert (printed on bottom):
Don 't turn upside down."
(well...duh, a bit late, huh!)

6. On Marks &Spencer Bread Pudding:
"Product will be hot after heating."
(...and you thought????...)

7. On packaging for a Rowenta iron:
"Do not iron clothes on body."
(but wouldn't this save me more time?)

8. On Boot's Children Cough Medicine:
"Do not drive a car or operate machinery after taking this medication."
(We could do a lot to reduce the rate of construction accidents if we could just get those 5-year-olds with head-colds off those forklifts.)

9. On Nytol Sleep Aid:
"Warning: May cause drowsiness."
(and... I'm taking this because???...)

10. On most brands of Christmas lights:
"For indoor or outdoor use only."
(as opposed to... what?)

11. On a Japanese food processor:
"Not to be used for the other use."
(now, somebody out there, help me on this. I'm a bit curious.)

12. On Sainsbury's peanuts:
"Warning: contains nuts."
(talk about a news flash)

13. On an American Airlines packet of nuts:
"Instructions: Open packet, eat nuts."
(Step 3: maybe, uh... fly Delta?)

14. On a child's superman costume:
"Wearing of this garment does not enable you to fly."
(I don't blame the company. I blame the parents for this one.)

15. On a Swedish chainsaw:
"Do not attempt to stop chain with your hands or genitals."
(Oh my God...was there a lot of this happening somewhere?)

theories of life

ROMANCE MATHEMATICS
Smart man + smart woman = romance
Smart man + dumb woman = affair
Dumb man + smart woman = marriage
Dumb man + dumb woman = pregnancy

OFFICE ARITHMETIC
Smart boss + smart employee = profit
Smart boss + dumb employee = production
Dumb boss + smart employee = promotion
Dumb boss + dumb employee = overtime

SHOPPING MATH
A man will pay $20 for a $10 item he needs.
A woman will pay $10 for a $20 item that she doesn't need.

GENERAL EQUATIONS & STATISTICS
A woman worries about the future until she gets a husband.
A man never worries about the future until he gets a wife.
A successful man is one who makes more money than his wife can spend.
A successful woman is one who can find such a man.

HAPPINESS
To be happy with a man, you must understand him a lot and love him a little
To be happy with a woman, you must love her a lot and not try to understand her at all.

LONGEVITY
Married men live longer than single men do,
but married men are a lot more willing to die.

PROPENSITY TO CHANGE
A woman marries a man expecting he will change, but he doesn't.
A man marries a woman expecting that she won't change, and she does.

DISCUSSION TECHNIQUE
A woman has the last word in any argument.
Anything a man says after that, is the beginning of a new argument.

HOW TO STOP PEOPLE FROM BUGGING YOU ABOUT GETTING MARRIED
Old aunts used to come up to me at weddings, poking me in the ribs and cackling,
telling me, "You're next."
They stopped after I started doing the same thing to them at funerals.

Grandma got a tattoo..!!!!

Can never imagine if she was my grandma.....

Differences between Men & Women - Waking up in the morning

Before and After the Marriage

Before the marriage:

He: Yes. At last. It was hard waiting.

She: Do you want me to leave?

He: NO! Don't even think about it.

She: Do you love me?

He: Of course!

She: Have you ever cheated on me?

He: NO! Why are you even asking?

She: Will you kiss me?

He: Yes!

She: Will you hit me?

He: No way! I'm not such kind of person!

She: Can I trust you?

Now after the marriage you can read it from bottom to the top !!!!

Wise thoughts on everything

1. Never take life seriously. Nobody gets out alive anyway.
2. Life is sexually transmitted.
3. Health is merely the slowest possible rate at which one can die.
4. Men have two emotions: Hungry and Horny. If you see him without an erection make him a sandwich.
5. Give a person a fish and you feed them for a day; teach a person to use the Internet and they won't bother you for weeks.
6. Some people are like Slinkies... not really good for anything, but you still can't help but smile when you see one tumble down the stairs...
7. Health nuts are going to feel stupid someday, lying in hospitals dying of nothing...
8. Whenever I feel blue, I start breathing again.
9. All of us could take a lesson from the weather. It pays no attention to criticism.
10. Why does a slight tax increase cost you two hundred dollars and a substantial tax cut saves you thirty cents?
11. In the 60's people took acid to make the world weird. Now the world is weird and people take Prozac to make it normal.
12. Politics is supposed to be the second oldest profession. I have come to realize that it bears a very close resemblance to the first.

I'm every women...

Just want to share nice poem from DR. Maya Angelou..

MAYA ANGELOU'S BEST POEM EVER

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE .....
enough money within her control to move out and rent a place of her own even if she never wants to or needs to...

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ....
something perfect to wear if the employer or date of her dreams wants to see her in an hour...

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ...
a youth she's content to leave behind....

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ....
a past juicy enough that she's looking forward to retelling it in her old age....

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE .....
a set of screwdrivers, a cordless drill, and a black lace bra...

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE .....
one friend who always makes her laugh... and one who lets her cry...

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ....
a good piece of furniture not previously owned by anyone else in herfamily...

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE .....
eight matching plates, wine glasses with stems, and a recipe for a meal that will make her guests feel honored...

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ....
a feeling of control over her destiny...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
how to fall in love without losing herself..

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
HOW TO QUIT A JOB, BREAK UP WITH A LOVER, AND CONFRONT A FRIEND WITHOUT RUINING THE FRIENDSHIP...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
when to try harder... and WHEN TO WALK AWAY...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
that she can't change the length of her calves, the width of her hips, or the nature of her parents..

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
that her childhood may not have been perfect...but its over...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
what she would and wouldn't do for love or more...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
how to live alone... even if she doesn't like it...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
whom she can trust, whom she can't, and why she shouldn't take it personally...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
where to go...be it to her best friend's kitchen table...or a charming inn in the woods...when her soul needs soothing...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...
what she can and can't accomplish in a day...a month...and a year...

Men and Sex

A man had dated 3 women and decided to marry one of them...

He had given the three women a test...

He gave them a million dollars to spend and wanted to know how they spent the money...

Woman #1

She went to the luxurious beauty house and spent the money for expensive body and face treatments. She also bought some exclusive make ups and glamour dresses. The woman said to the man that all that she had done is to make her looks more attractive and really beautiful in front of the man and she loves him sooo.. The man impressed..

Woman #2

She spent the money by buying some great quality golf equipments, stunning men clothes, and a set of the latest high tech computer. She gave all those things to the man as presents. She said to the man that she spent all of the money only for the man because she loves him sooo.. The man really impressed..

Woman #3

This woman invested the money given by the man in the stock exchange, she got double profit and gave back the one million dollars money to him. She saved the profit in bank by opening the saving deposit account in the name of both of them. She said to the man that all of those things she had done is for their bright future and she luurrvv him sooo.... The man totally impressed..

The man took long time to think and try to figure out which woman is the most wise on spending his money.

Finally...

He had decided...

To marry the woman who has the biggest boobs among all...

uuuhhhh...

Why do men love boobs or breasts or tits or whatever-you-call-it so
much...?????!!!!

Batu Karas Beach

A very exciting place to escape from a very extremely dizzy uptown. Batu Karas beach is about 5 km from Pangandaran beach. Located in South beach of West Java, Indonesia. The right place to spend your vacation times. Though it is quiet far from Jakarta, but its worth a trip.

We took a car with my 8 friends, kinda travel car. We went from Jakarta at 9 p.m on Friday night, picked up a friend in Bandung and finished our long trip in Batu Karas beach at 6.30 a.m on Saturday. We live at JavaCove Beach Hotel which already reserved since 2 weeks before. The most beautiful place to live among the other place, although there were some new place but I still love this hotel. The hotel is located right infront of the beach, faces the Java Cove, maybe it is why the owner (Paul and Nik) named their place JavaCove. I totally recommend this place if you wanna go to Batu Karas beach.

We went to Citumang waterfall, about 6 km from Batu Karas Beach. A nice waterfall with cave and pure water. We had to take a walk from the parking park, about 1 km. Once you got there, you would feel like you're in some place like paradise. Some very great views with some nice and beautiful atmosphere. You could swim, jump from the top of the waterfall, if the waterfall is not challenging enough you could always try to jump from roots of the cave, which is about 5 to 6 meters, or even try to pumped up your adrenaline and go inside the cave which ended in the other side of the mountain.

Still want some good places..?? Try to take another walk to the right side of the hotel, passed through the path to the hilland go down to the valley, continue your steps to the very end of the path way and you will find the Batu Manunggal beach, my friends and I ussually call it 'Private Beach'. This some what quiet beach with no baywatch but very clean and cozy place for those who want to enjoy their private times with a very magnificent scenery, really had us went bananas. 'We owned the beach...!!!' oh.. another thing, do not forget to take some water. Why..?? Because it is private beach and no one else is around also those who sell water..!!

It's time to eat...!!! There are so many restaurants along the street, because it's near the beach of course most of them serve seafoods, but they are still chicken or meat. We tried the 'mie ayam' for breakfast, although hotel provided us some western breakfast menu but we still feel like another meal. haha... And the most thank-God thing is all of the food are cheap. There is a 'Warung Nasi' named Warung Nasi Bu Ade, serve some home-made menus, about 3 km from Batu Karas beach, and it also cost very cheap. Oh I love this place..!!

Too bad we had to go back to Jakarta, on Sunday at 2 p.m after we had our lunch at Warung Bu Ade we continue our journey of getting back to the real life. Huhuhu.. Guess what..??!! We arrived in Jakarta at 6 a.m in the morning...!!! Though we often stop our trip at some places but still it was a very tiring but exciting adventure. The good thing was, we always enjoy all of the things we had passed through together. Maybe that is what people say trully frienships. :)

Will absolutely go there again and again and again and again.........

If you wanna look at some more pictures just follow the link. More Pictures..!!